Being a Woman..!

Its a mere coincidence that i am writing something on woman on this women's day.Perhaps for the first time i am wishing anyone a "happy women's day.." i wasn't a serious admirer of so called "days of special importance.." but this year,this women's day..i am feeling something special... because...life is teaching me..watz it being a woman..

This post is dedicated to all the silent revolutionists of ur households...

This is not about feministic ideas,not about women liberation,not about gender equality..nothing..
its all about acknowledging the millions of women in my country..who has zero idea about all the boasting revolution that is said to be happening in and around the world for gender equality..

There are still millions of women do a lot of work like a super women and has zero complaints...

The living example vl be ur own mom,mothers r  gem actually,who wakes up every morning,cooks food for you  and the entire family..and sometimes we dont even acknowledge the things she is doing for us..all the mothers out their are epitome of sacrifice..and i have seen many ppl asking "none has asked u to sacrifice. why dont you live?none has stopped you to do anything tht makes you happy" in reality..this altruistic nature of ur mom is an inborn thing... she isnt doing it deliberately..it comes on its own..my mom used to tell me.."u vl understand it wen u become a mother only...some things in ur life cant b explained.."

i began to notice how the life of a woman is leading especially in a patriarchy prevailing country like india..coz i myself get a chance to experience it on my own wen my mom was away from me for so so long..suddenly a lot of responsibilities began surrounding me... and i have seen lives of others began to center around me... if i am lazy, all are lazy.if i am tired , all are tired..if i am late, all are late.. i was equally confused and shocked to learn that its the woman who literally leads the house..i was for sometime skeptical about my own ability to lead the home and to find time to do things for my own. and then i started to admire my mom...i realized how she had been doing this so beautifully for the past years of her life..tht too without complaining...and i started loving and admiring my mom more than b4..once i understood how demanding her life had been and how she fought her entire life.
For a woman..the life is too demanding i understood..many ppl are depending u for their survival.When u realize this fact ur mind wont let you to have rest and live 4 ur own...!

if all those silent beautiful ladies stop melting their life in the houses of the whole world,i must say,this world wil stop.

i take a bow to all the lovely ladies who don't even have time to talk about gender equality and to come and wish ppl on this women's day..because they are too busy living the life for others and for themselves..
it is the fruit of my moms sacrifice that i am sitting here writing about the woman.it is the fruit of my moms sacrifice that i got a chance to study..its her sweat and sleepless nights that i am here today..
and on this beautiful day..i even wish all the lovely men who constantly support their lady love to lead a life of super woman..

i have seen my dad,everyday help my mom in her kitchen.he for the major part of his life was staying away from all us to support the family..but once he was back..he tirelessly helped my mom..and now extending his help to me....

even if we don't ask for gender equality..i think there are several men who has that heart to help the woman in their life..and such ppl are  just not telling  the world tht they are helping them..so gender equality isn't a dream..its a reality in many home.its just that many aren't announcing it, like the other pole who is demanding the equality..

though they are helping..the life of a woman is soooooo complicated....coz for the home u have to decide how things should be.Men can only extend their help.they are lazy in deciding the things.They only help if we begin the work on our own.for instance in most of the home its our mom who decide what should we eat today..

women have an innate behavior of concern for others.she naturally is inclined to the life of the people who is centered around her...even though she wishes to live for her own..she may ends up skipping her choices for the sake of others...coz she knows tht the life of many other people are depended on her.

so,all the sons,daughters,husbands out there...ur mom,ur wife wont be saying her wishes openly...for she has tht inborn ability to hide her wishes and live for others,so its ur turn to acknowledge the super woman in her and fulfill her little wishes. tht is how we show the gratitude for tht beautiful soul who keeps on melting her life for us.Remember.,ur clock wil stop once if she decide to stop melting..

Happy womens day to all the lovely ladies out there who works tirelessly for the well being of the whole family...who hav zero words and time to complaint..i want to u be acknowledged...because all are too busy talking abt gender equality and staying strong... in fact its ur sacrifice tht made these ppl to talk abt the equality and write "stay strong" comments in the social media..because..i knw u vl b busy preparing food for these souls in kitchen while they are busy writing essays about the equality in the social media....and i join wid u in ur struggle for survival ,the lovely ladies....

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